"Mustn't grumble".
Since my 2013 stroke physically most people think I am fully recovered. On the whole this is a good thing and I am grateful: things could have been
so much worse. My main disabilities are my poor voice and feeling giddy
all the time when on my feet.
The poor voice is a real drawback. Often I have to repeat myself several times and this is exhausting. I get really frustrated when I need to explain myself, but know the energy to be expended is too much. In casual conversations it is easier to remain quiet. I miss just joining in to casual chats.
What few understand is how much energy I use just to appear normal. Walking and driving are exhausting. To most I look just fine, yet I am clumsy and nearly always exhausted. Life is tougher than it once was, but "mustn't grumble".
As I have said before, do
not judge a book by its cover. Often people who look or behave "normally" may be suffering in silence.
See
https://sites.google.com/site/g3xbmqrp3/stroke